My grandfather is 97, has several health issues, and has had a live-in care giver for several years now. The time has arrived for her to move on, I won't bore you all with the gory details, but suffice to say that I'm extending my vacation to VA to help my parents, aunt and uncle deal with the situation of getting my grandfather out of his house temporarily and his caregiver out of the house permanently since we're all here. (My parents live near him, the rest of us are visiting). Stress level is way up there, but we'll make it through. Good vibes etc. would help however.