yu can do it!
well ned raisin kids isnt always fun we sometimes have to do thinigs we dont like but know is the best for them.. one thing you do need to do is somewhat punsh the other one as well.. it wasnt just the older ones fault takes two to tangle.. i know i had my licks from younger brother and gave him few as well but we almost always both got it in the end.. also you need to talk to both and make sure they know that even though they messed up badly you and your wife still love them,, either threw actions or in words or both prefered...dont look at comiong home a bad thing look at it as a another chance to make someone better! you can do it ned!!!
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