Royall,
I just finished some PM's and read this, Royall, just consider yourself getting a great big hug or a bunch of little ones from each and everyone of us here on FWW. We are family and Cathie is too. I have had a blessed life and haven't seen the divorce and such except through my brother, watched his oldest son go through luekemia and eventually die. My brother who now like Carol in later years has followed his calling and become a preacher told my Nathan had died by saying, "Nathan recieved his crown from God today". I watched my grandfather die in his home per his wishes and know the feeling of loss but also by being close, knowing the feeling of some type of satisfaction (almost guilt) that the pain has ended for him. I pray you have close family and friends to physically lean on, please my friend, any time of day or night, email, PM, I can even provide a phone number in the event you just need to talk. Thoughts and prayers are with you and Cathie, trust in the Lord, revel in her walking with God, enjoy your memories and life will go on. Let us help in any babystep ways we can.