The fact that yu can get to know someone yu have never seen only threw their words or their works is a major reality check..it either shows ones thoughtlessness or ones trueslef. when things happen to this person whom we have never seen, and it makes us have either good feelings or melancholy ones is something that makes human life a gift that cant be compared. to have our hands tied and only relying on friendship and or faith can be very unnerving and yet the other partner, if there is one has got the worst or the best of it. we have many in our forum that have and or are going threw some major life crisises..some are know some arent.. we should all take a breath and look at what we can do for another that may be worse off than us and read between some lines on where some really are.. to many times there are some that dont voice there needs and could use some support. those who read this and are one of the ones who are expierencing some tuff times.. please contact someone to lean on..ME and others are here for that very reason we are a family away from your immediate one but we still are family..and feel your pain and glee.