Stu, I know you and Emiko are currently overwhelmed by this huge life passage. Lots of unidentified emotions running through your head. More things will happen that you will find difficult dealing with. One, will be the first time you call her and she acts annoyed you interrupted whatever she was doing and says she will call you back then doesn't for three or four days. It will happen. And it will wrench your gut. All it will mean is that she is learning to be independent, learning to live on her own, has new friends and interests and you are no longer 100% of her life, you are just part of it. Yer baby ain't no baby no more. Been there, am there.