Jim, those types of emotional days for me are way more draining than labor intensive days. Congrats on the son and daughter, thank your son for me for his service. In times of helplessness, it is great to have a friend to lean on and am confident you are a positive resource for them.
When my wife had a mass removed from her uteris, I took her to the hospital and stayed by my lonesome, a friend showed up out of the blue. Thought I was alright, saw him and bawled like a baby for a few minutes. Support is a great thing.
God and family, the rest is icing on the cake.
I'm so far behind, I think I'm in first place.
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