Thanks again everyone and special thanks to those who've shared like experiences, helps the 'all alone feelings' disappear.
I don't know if it's sad English speaking skills, or back-room degrees or just my running on empty, but, there never was a kidney issue, it was a liver one. All's clear either way thank God. They did find a spot on her pancreas, but not to fret, we're to set up another look-see in a year or so to see if it's up to anything evil.
As to the heart valve, the mitral{sp.?} valve has to be replaced, possibly Wed. morning...so more fun & time decorating her room
More as I get it...sure miss those 20 something years...5 or 6 hr's of sleep over 4 days was a piece of cake back then...Once again thanks for the boost!!!