Ryan the issue is not so much exuberance as opposed to motivation.
I am very much what i would consider a serial entrepreneur. I have worked in more than 12 major industries. Not bragging just fact. The fundamental issue to me is so many many people do a job they hate. They have to drag their feet to that office or factory. They then have to have a heavy duty coffee to get stimulated enough to start the day. They in a vice. Wedged between doing the work because they have bills to pay.
The key to me is to be doing the very thing that you enjoy. Then its not work. It dont matter about hours because you dont care about hours. Its fun. All pure fun and you enjoy it so much you go and go and go like clockwork.
This becomes a self fulfilling prophercy. Your positive enthusiasm in a situation like this becomes infectious and the customer picks up on this confidence.
We need to recognise the system is not designed to breed entrepreneurs. Its designed to breed workers for the system. Parents too pass on all their fears so before a kid today gets a chance to think of making it on their own while they still at home and have the protection of the roof over their head, they have been pounded both at school and work with the whole seeking of security. Gotta get an education, gotta go to University.
But some of our greatest success storys today were all drop outs. Richard Branson, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs show me where they followed the systems path.
You gotta do x you gotta do y. So the sense of adventure is knocked out of them and the substitute is you gotta get this to get that you gotta buy a house for your family. Yeah you gotta have a mortgage. That ensures you become shackled and obedient to the system.
An entrepreneur has to have a little rebel in them. You gotta have some arrogance to believe you can do it as good if not better than the next man who may be your competitor.
I am sorry i dont see the aspect of having a home that ties all you own to one spot on the map and liability of mortgage payments to go with it as security. Today the market is mobile. From a economic point of view and job point of view. When you are liquid and have your assets or savings in a manner that they can be leverage to take advantage of opportunity then you have security. You cannot exactly move from say Seattle to New York to a new job if you got a house in Seattle and the property market tanks and you cannot find a buyer. That severly restricts your ability to earn an income. But we all been bread with way way too much fear not to follow this path that generations before us have.
Sure a certain amount of fear is healthy and we have it naturally if we tune in to our own mind, but way too much of it is coming at us to keep us compliant. This is not conducive to being confident and motivated as you need to be to sell something.
Coming from where i came from we had fear up to our eyeballs. We lived with bombs and terrorism before you guys learnt about the word. Eventually you get to the point where you say enough and shrug it off and get on with living.
I dont agree with Carol that you need luck. To me there is no such thing as luck. You make your own luck.
I have proved time and time again that if you get enough balls in the air then one is bound to land where you want it. This is what i was refering to the other day about keeping doors to opportunity open. But you also need to be prepared to step through the doors. Some opportunities will work some wont. Its not a matter of luck, its more a matter of perseverance.
Just think of the great inventors. A guy like Thomas Edison. By the standards expected today he would have been exepected to become the next high school nutcase shooter. He was considered a dunce at school.
But he coined the phrase 99% perspiration and 1% inspiration. He did not mean sweating either he just meant applying oneself perpetually.
Faced with unemployment at 50 ish is today becoming very common for a man and as Carol has said for ladies too. But by the same token we are being kept alive through improvement in health services and standards of living for a good further 30 years. If you examine this the very idea that we gonna get by on the savings and social security payments for those 30 years then in my opinion this is a joke. No meaning to be political or offend. In my view this has nothing to do with politics and everything to do with pure mathematics. We have already seen civil servants heck even firefighters in countries across the globe being layed off. Who would ever have thought it possible. It makes a mockery of the value add of the service industry in my view. BUt i am a biased manufacturing man.
I dont see that one can get by on Walmart greeter pay either.
I will argue that seeking other work if you have been layed off at 50ish is just putting off the inevitable. When it no longer suites the company that hires you, well you now might be 53 ish or 55 ish and be out of work again. Each one of these instances at this age takes more from you in spirit than the tough times of paddling your own canoe in my view. There is way more that is lost each time this event takes place than simply the income. Each time its a mental kick in the head. A reminder that you getting old and a rejection by the system of your abilities to add value to suite the system.
When i am paddling my own canoe at least i know that no one other than the customer or the almighty is going to give me the chop.
Jim D made a good point in another thread in reply to some of my comments. Our parents grew up with a world where you had somewhat job security if you kept your nose clean and showed up and did your work. Today thats not the case.
Our kids will probably have so many jobs in their working career they will not even bother counting. The key is if they dont add value and their company does not make a healthy return they aint gonna have a job.
Whats the difference between that and being self employed. Being self employed i am not dependent on the boss screwing up the deal or not showing up at the right time or showing up drunk as happened to me once on a very important overseas business trip and deal. (yeah he thought it was funny I was subordinate to him at the time but i did not. ) The participants in our meeting did not appreciate his state of mind.
I hear Jim about regulations and hiring people and keeping up with technology. BUt some of it you faced with having to do anyhow if you need to earn a living.
I still believe in a free market like the USA and Canada especially a market where you still have a very large economically active population, self employment and ones own business is the way to go in my view as scary as it may seem.