Nancy, to you and yours our deepest sympathies to you. At my neice's college graduation party yesterday I saw a lady I hadn't seen in years. Something was said about memories, she said, "no one or nothing can take my Fred from me, I always have my memories of our good times together". It moved me yesterday and thought of it as soon as I read your thread's title. May you find peace and comfort knowing your dad is out of pain and in a wonderful place.