I can't begin to understand what you're dealing with because it's you dealing with it on your basis. Doctors do what they do for whatever reasons and I've had to learn to trust what they do for me since I've dealt with heart issues 30 years now. I never liked dealing with doctors before but now just bite the bullet and try to do most of what they tell me!
Im not the praying type, but Im hoping for a quick and easy recovery for her, being diabetic, I know first hand its no picnic and we all have to take care of ourselves very carefully.
Hope shes out of there soon, and Im sending tons of good vibes out her way.